I wouldn't bother with PurpleTinker if I were you. She is a horrible person and a mean spirited bully who always has to get her way.
There were a few slurs that were uncalled for, but you must keep in mind that the people she was dealing with were extremely angry with her at the time. Yes, they could have channeled their anger against her in a better way, but ultimately the fault lies with PurpleTinker for being such a monomaniacal asshole.
I don't claim to know the whole story, but I know enough to identify PT as the one in the wrong.
She stole money, saying she was entitled to it, then when people called her out she refused to let go of her control.
She is vane to the nth degree, and now she's using her transexuality as a weapon against those who disagree with her.
She is a horrible human being and a horrible representation of other respectable transexuals.